Goodbyes

‘Good bye’ I really wonder how easy to pronounsate this word is. We always prepare ourselves to say mutter goodbyes. Goodbye to friends, goodbye to college life and to each places that we live and leave our soul of memories, to both lovable and painful memories of past and to some dreams when we realize they will never become real. I wonder about the easiness and the comfort ability that this word has given to hide the feelings of painful farewells. Our mouths easily say ‘goodbyes’ at several occasions but the hearts are unwilling to accept the realities. Saying goodbye is not a difficult task but accepting it as it as is the most difficult part of life. It is just because we are habited to live in formalized way. We feel quiet comfortable when we are with familiar things and persons. ‘New’ things may be interesting but it doesn’t mean that we are happy with them. Meeting a new person or even preparing to have a new life may be the substitutes for the things that we said goodbye. But what I can assurely say is; goodbyes can never make an end to love. Even if we leave a person or a place, we still live with their memories. So the reality says goodbyes never make ends.

Everyone has something not everything

Ya obviously everyone has something. It sounds too logical instead of saying everyone has every thing. This simple thought has further strengthened yesterday. I was waiting for a specific bus in the bus stop which is very near to my home. I used to observe the road until I got that specific number bus. There was a beggar with a torn shirt sitting under the shadow of a tree which was near to the road. No one was even bothering him including myself. At that time, there was a very poor old man came to the road. He also was wearing a torn shirt and was ugly. But he is not a beggar for sure since I had seen him in our road often and I guess he should be a road cleaner. Once each met (the beggar and the other) they both said ‘good morning’ and thereafter they started chatting. Guys with nice shirts and ladies with nice hand bags who were standing over there near to the tree refused to even go near to the beggar (Add Me also in the list). Before, I thought the beggar must be alone and no one is there to talk with him. But he has a friend in his status. Anyway he gets some meal and survives and very importantly he is sharing his feelings with a friend. No matter even if he has no home and who cares there are huge roads in the city and plenty enough shadowy places and good enough persons in his status to talk with him (I mean beggars). I know it is not a blessed or fortuned life but just wanted to tell you ‘everyone has something but not everything’.

Who is responsible?

I just have realized I am responsible for all the things that happened in my life including the incidents that made me happy and also the incidents made me to cry. But there is one thing that I couldn’t understand yet which is why the hell I always forget this simple philosophy and at most times not realizing this logic. Also another truth is we are the only ones who are making opportunities or threats and even fates. This is the time to realize that mind is the barely best tool that determining the hells and paradises. I don’t believe in another life. We all get only one and precious opportunity to live in this earth. So it becomes necessary to make it happy. Every single action that happens around us makes at least a threshold amount of ‘effect’ inside us. Most times we blame the environment for the bad things happened in our lives. But actually ask yourself why a specific incident happened. Is it because of the environment only? Or is there at least a percentage of contribution of you in that action? I am pretty sure you will have at least a small percentage of contribution for things that happened in your life. But I know you may doubt the suitability of this argument at all situations. If a natural disaster took place in your area and because of it, you have lost your relations, and then the blame definitely goes to the environment. But remember most of the natural disasters take place due to the humans’ activities and because of their unconcerned behaviours on environment. So here you might not be responsible but a cluster of persons become responsible who you may know or even not know. We decide our own fates and sometimes others’. If you used to drive your car following the road rules then you save both your’s and others’ lives. But if it is other way round then the fate is also get modified.