First days

I know first impression is the best. But I am quiet excited when saying hello first time and always looking for the other side’s smile. Smiles express much. Some smile without showing their teeth and some don’t. Once I talked with a person, it would be very often I get friendly with him or her. Anyhow First days are unforgettable, memorable and of course not revisable. A dear friend’s smiley face at the very first day we met will never leave our minds. Sometimes we like a person when we meet first time and lately we get bored of him or her because of the different tastes that we have. However first days become sweet memories of life. First day at school, first day that we met our closest friend and the first day that gave learning towards something are unforgettable forever. It is true first days encourage us to try a new thing, forget pains of past and feel like new ones. First day of a new year may make us to forget the pains of last year and think of forthcoming future. I believe last days are first days of something. Last day at a workplace might be the first day of another victorious profession.

Moment of death

No genius has exposed the experience of death yet. I wonder how it will be the moment of death. Will it be painful? Will it be fearful? Or will it be a feeling that can’t be sensed? How many of people who have passed away up to this moment would felt their life is good enough up to the moment their death occurred? Some say people who die in accidents and natural disasters may not feel the pain of it because they mightn’t know that they are going to die. But think of those who suffer for a long time to meet their death. They probably fear to meet the demise. However the ones who die for a passion are really great. They might feel the joy of dying for freedom and others. What ever it is, the moment of death will somewhat give the feeling of leaving this world, dear ones and the memories that belong to this life. People who believe in god say our sprites will live after leaving our corpses. But I don’t know to what extend it is true. Anyway according to my view, a good death should give the feeling of satisfaction that I have done something in this world at the moment death occurs.

Inspirations

Most of the times we believe failures make an end to our actions and life. But isn’t it they inspiring us to do something better than previously what we did? Failures become the starting point of another action. They stimulate improving us. But we are fear to meet failures. Illogically we expect success at all. What makes fear to most of us towards meeting failures? It is mostly ego and fear of what others will think of us. It doesn’t matter how others think of us since they are not going to live for us. Meeting failures in a fearless way and making them as inspirations will ever stimulate a big success that we didn’t think. Regarding to my view, failures are opportunities of understanding the absoluteness of us and the ones who surround us. Letdowns allow us to identify who are likely to be with us in our slumps and who try to leave us. So believe in there will be big success after each failure.