Monday, April 15, 2013

Win the game of life


At rimes. Life gives us the most challenging days. Things that were alright before go wrong, things that seemed so easy to achieve become the hardest, things that mattered a lot once become pointless, our perceived logics become illogical, things that denoted high values suddenly start to contradict, people who were so closed and meant a lot in life become strangers, and at last all the dramas, arguments, anger, and all the exchanged expressions become pointless. It is just the game of life and no other word can denote the nature of life other than ‘game’. It is just a test given to see how far we stay strong, how far we fight to sustain our unique originality, and how far we play the game. Nothing lasts forever. In the end, it is us who have to face all the reality of life, play the drama, and win the game with confident. People may come in and stay in our lives for a short time to teach us something but in the end, it is all about us. It is all about us whether we make a path to the journey or just hang on others’ shoulders without the guts to face it alone. Let’s be open, enjoy the days with good people and use the opportunities whenever possible, learn things from the hard times and hard people. At last let’s be us, No dramas, No endeavours to impress anybody, No toxics, No expectations, and No to all negative feelings and people and they are meant to be out of our lives. Yes to the courage to face the game of this life and we are born for a reason on earth, we each are unique so that no others can devalue or value us. Let’s play our unique roles, let’s learn our lessons, let’s improve and win the game of the life our unique way. 

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Want a world out of the waves of fakes


It has been a long time I visited my blog. It means I have not expressed myself in my words for ages and yes, it is very difficult to find words always. We have bunches of things to express and yet we don’t know how. Long time ago, I discovered a quench in my soul that directed me towards a greatest degree of achievement but nowadays I see a fire inside me. I am searching a life that I dream about, which is full of achievements, ambitions, joys, and a greater degree of independence. I am in the stage of realizing that life has its own optimisms and obstacles, and there are many factors, which prevent us from doing what we love in our lives even at the times when we are madly in a need for such aspects. Many unexpected incidents make us tired, irritated and at most times angry. It seems that this world is full of fakes, and so artificial. There is a saying that if we find ourselves hard to sustain in this world, then probably we must have made for a different world. I am now in the process of creating my world of optimism. I see a lot of poor faces in Vanni on the way when I travel to Jaffna. I see they live in small shelters or houses that are made up of coconut leaves. They had gone through a nightmare and of course, yes they have nothing to lose further. I like the innocence in their faces and this is only where I find no fakes. They remain innocents and my subconscious feels a hungry in their souls. Yes, this is for achievement and definitely, they are in a search for something. They have to search something every day even to survive. Even a single word would come out from their heart and they just don’t spoil their lives with fakes. The only aspect that I doubt about them is that whether they remain poor just because they are innocents or just because they are poor, they remain innocents. However, I find many people just as me who have the same fire inside, and truly, nothing is wrong in creating a world for us if we find that this world is not fitting for us. Regardless of the fakes, and the obstacles thrown at us, we have bunches of things to do in our lives. We are here to do something that we do love and no one else has the rights to prevent us from doing so. Life has a biggg meaning and there is just one opportunity to live it. Nothing is best like creating a world of desires and dreams when we find us hard to cope-up to the waves of fakes and obstacles that come in our way.

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Again... a short foot print of my life


Ah....I am back to my blog after a very long time....as I too have entered into a life that is stuffed with some hard schedules. It seems I am going on the right track though I feel bit of bored at times...yes, everything has a successful and meaningful end, which I believe in my life’s too....Nothing has a perfectionism and an everlasting behaviour in life....My short remaining in my hometown in the  last two months was quiet flourishing and memorable. My new teaching experience, my lovable students, fun and all the memories seem be enchanting...my first teaching experience, all my students who have now become my good friends, funs that we had in the classrooms...all such memories remain green in my mind believing it as another important period in my time...a new career in which I have an absolute advantage for my future  and for my foremost dream of starting my own business. Mmm...I am too slightly entering into my new business opportunities, and to a new career with an absolute chance of achievement. My short remaining in my hometown too reminds me about the past, that lovely life we had once upon a time, about my mother, her dreams, her death, how days went critical when she was hospitalized, and about one of my uncle who doesn’t survive at the moment in the world...everything comes into my mind..yes, nothing is going to everlast other than the lovable memories that our souls leave and remind in each stages of life. Mmm....this is not just about my family....I too remember how Jaffna was some years back..how people suffered...how they endeavored for their freedom...how many people died and now how it has turned to be a painful memory. Again, I like to mention about a story of a woman whom I met during these two months....yes she is pretty...she used to tell me that her husband lives in Colombo...however, I was quiet keen to understand that something seems wrong with her. Yes, she lived in Vanni..she has lost her husband and her daughter during war..now she just stays with her mother and her second daughter. I could do nothing for her other than I shocked at that news. So, my short staying in Jaffna has given me a lot of memeories...both delightful and painful. I also should mention about my sister’s daughter who is just about two years and the naughtiest things that she has done to me whenever I open my laptop. Mm....now I am preparing my life for a new beginning believing sincerely that I am going to achieve all my dreams. This is again a small foot print of my life...I know there are many more that I will learn in future...there are more birds to come into my life..whatever it is, I know I am going to get it.